MEET RACHEL

I Changed the Way I Dated. Now I Guide Others To Do the Same

I'm Rachel Mailer, a Dating Strategist & Connection Expert.

I help single entrepreneurs break the dating patterns keeping them single and find a meaningful, long-term partnership.

After eight years of online dating, countless dates and disappointing connections, I realised something had to change. I had built a life I loved. I didn't need someone to complete me.
I wanted someone to share my amazing life with.

But I realised that if I wanted a different outcome, I needed to start making different choices.

I stopped dating to be chosen and started dating with intention. That shift changed everything. I met the man who is now my husband.

Today, through my signature RESET • BUILD • CHOOSE methodology, I help single entrepreneurs recognise the patterns holding them back, reconnect with who they are and what they truly want, and make intentional choices towards lasting love.

My approach combines my personal experience with professional expertise in NLP, Attachment Theory, Body Language and Advanced Life Coaching, alongside two degrees in Education and over 15 years of experience understanding how people develop, communicate and form connections.

I'm proud to have achieved a 100% success rate against my clients' individual coaching goals.

Because finding your partner isn't about dating harder.

It's about intentionally dating.

TESTIMONIAL

Client

Rosie

Teacher

“Rachel helped me rebuild my confidence, celebrate myself and stay accountable. Her support made me feel completely seen and understood. Since working with her, I have met my life partner, we’re engaged, and I know her coaching played a huge part in this.”

MY APPROACH: RESET. BUILD. CHOOSE.

Finding your person isn’t about dating harder. It’s about dating differently.

RESET:

Confidence & Clarity

Get clear on what you actually want, understand what’s been driving your dating decisions and strengthen your self- trust.

BUILD:
Secure Dating

Put that clarity into practice through intentional dating, stronger boundaries, confident communication and understanding chemistry versus compatibility.

CHOOSE:
Relationship Readiness

Recognise the right connections
sooner and choose a partner who
aligns with your values, lifestyle and vision for the future.

EXPLORE HOW I WORK

1:1 DATING COACHING

I work with successful singles who are dating and putting themselves out there, but still aren’t getting closer to the meaningful, lasting relationship they want. Together, we look at how you’re dating, who you’re choosing and what happens when a connection begins.

You’ll learn to date with more clarity and intention, recognise compatibility sooner, trust your own judgement, communicate confidently and stop investing time in connections that were never going to become the relationship you want.

EXPERIENCE, MEDIA & AUTHORITY

Executive Contributor

Brainz Magazine

Confidence Magazine

Podcasting & Speaking

Host of Dates Don’t Lie Show

Speaker & Podcast Guest

Awards

Top 10 in Brighton Girl Awards 2025

Nominated for Best Professional Service 2026 & Rising Star 2026 in the Flamingo Business Awards

Nominated for Entrepreneur of the Year 2026 in Women In Business UK Awards

READY TO CHANGE THE WAY YOU DATE?

You’ve built a life you’re proud of. Now you want someone meaningful to share it with.

Let’s look at what’s keeping you from the relationship you want and what needs to

change to move you closer to it.

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